
My mother works in the financial aid department of Lincoln Technical Institute, a vocational school specifically suited for students looking to enter the workforce immediately after graduating (or not graduating)...
Put aside for a moment the hackneyed workplace setting of rich old white guys sitting in an office and drinking coffee; in order to fully comprehend the story I'm about to tell, one must understand the social atmosphere at this school. My mother is the minority out of minorities:
Daisy is in her twenties and latino.
Taiwan, her boss, is just a bit older and black.
Alexandria is in her twenties and black.
Most of the staff and students at this school came from a lower-class backgrounds. Some are still from bad neighborhoods and don't have extra money to burn.
My mother is a middle-aged, middle-class white woman who has never known poverty.
Amazingly, my mother gets along quite nicely with the people with whom she works. There's not a scintilla of doubt in her mind: she's happy working at LTI!
So now, a vignette:
Two days ago, a Jamaican man worked as a temporary employee in the financial aid department. Besides from not being able to understand him some of the times, my mom enjoyed working with him. She said he was nice and efficient. She also said "you have a nice thick accent. I'm having trouble understanding it!"
Anyway, the emigrant started explaining how different it is to live here in America and how all of his family was still in Jamaica. He commented on how obsessed jejune people in America are with money and material possessions. He came up with some quite fascinating thoughts, all of which were true.
Far from feeling blasé about this man, my mother studied him quite carefully. In fact, she found that his éclat was extremely moving. After a full day of working with the surprisingly deft neophyte, the only thing she could say was:
“People in Jamaica are so laid back!”
To which her boss automatically responded with:
“You mean because of all that pot they smoke?”
Regardless of this last conversation, the story my mom told me got me thinking about all of the material possessions I have and how people in different parts of the world live with almost nothing. Would I be happy like that? Or would I miss everything I own here in America and be splenetic for the rest of my life? Sure, Mr. Jamaica might have had more here than he had at home but was he really happy? Do people need material possessions to be happy?
Honestly, I don’t think many people do but I find it sad that the only people who feel like they need material possessions are in the United States or Canada or China or all the extremely advanced countries. I have always wanted to travel outside of the US and see what life around the world was like—especially where people live their life in jeopardy every day; my dream is to help a village in Africa or another underdeveloped part of the world, where all they need is water, food and shelter to survive. I think we would all be able to focus a little more on ourselves if we weren’t distracted by material possessions and technology. We would be a little happier, in the long run.
But for now, I’ll keep my MacBook and my blogspot.com…